Life.
what is life? is there subtance in it? or is it some incomprehensible thing to us humans till the day we have lost it? perhaps like air.. when u have air u dun know wad it is. its existance will be known if it is not there. but wen its there people tend to forget its existency.
Happiness. Anger. Sadness. Jealousy. Desire. an a whole lot more of tumult emotions one has to endure thru life. what to feel is what u want to perceive things as. if u dont wanna feel angry u wont feel angry. if something makes u angry, its not that "things" fault. its a matter of how u see it. lets say someone punches u in the face and walk away. hes your friend. wads ur immediate emotion? anger? confusion? instincts wld say go whack him back. anger. but why? cause he punched u. but if u look from another way, maybe u deserve to be punched. u did something that u didnt know. maybe the mistake was big enough to cost u your life. maybe heaven sent him here to wake u up from ur dream. ok thats juz a random example.
same things goes for friends. why do some have more friends den others? is it cause they have great humour, are fun? intellectually wise perhaps?
jokes can run out. fun is defined by ur reaction to things. quiet people may not have less frens. they can in fact make alot too. IF they let people KNOW them. know not in the sense like oh hi, im qwerty, age 69 blah blah. ok. bye. nex time u see oh hi! ok BYe! this aint knowing a person. this is called greeting a stranger that gave u his name.
quality of life depends on the person. if on choose to slack at home alone in front of the com while others are out having fun, whos to blame? ok im not saying that slackin in front of the com is a bad thing, but if ur bored, shldn u be finding something to do instead? call some ppl out. invite them to ur house. go for a movie. or something. ok though in sg.. its limited as well. i mean. the activities u do. BUt once again, its the people who makes it interesting. the people. friends. to some their friends are their lives. to some family bonds are theirs. to others an activity perhaps, sports, which involves frens indirectly. what is life to YOU? some seek fame an fortune. ultimately, fame gets ppl to know u. fortune gets friends eyeing on ur cash. do u know how true a fren they are? u wldn. schools are perhaps the most reliable source of friend makin place. they wont judge u by ur fame nor fortune but personality. the feel of ur companionship.
omg speakin of companionship, i forgot 1 thing. L.o.v.e. hahas. *blurs*
love in life. alot live for love. wen love is taken away some cant handle the truth an take away their own life. life is all about love. love e frens u wif, love the family u haf, love the sport u do. if u care for ur frens they know and they'll feel it. no one is born a social outcast. even those wif physical defromities or anything also isnt judge by MOST by just their appearences. read the book. not the cover. thats frens.
on the other hand the workin world is diff story for another time. appearences MATTERS there. think im about done today.
commemorating the death of a love one's loved one. death is inevitable. we make the most out of LIFE instead shldn we? the dead wont want tears flowing. tho its hard all has to move on.
this post was inspirated by reading a fellow frens post and i hope it'll help one whom i have considered as a fren.
ps. ilu. *smile always.*
TgOc
♥great one has spoken.